Wednesday, 29 November 2017

FIGHTING TALK — WINNING WORDS, TELLING TRUTHS 4


Competence + Commitment + Confidence = Success


The three ingredients for individual optimum achievement or success in life are CompetenceCommitment and Confidence.

Competence is set of skills you have already acquired and which are evidence that at some time in the past, you have overcome adversity, passed an exam, gained the victory, fought against the odds, come through and survived trouble, difficulty, hardship, suffering, sorrow or heartache.

Commitment is an indication of your determination to win through any difficult or unpleasant situation you face, complete any task you have taken on. It shows in the way you are tackling things, the way in which you are facing the challenge. The challenge may be one you have chosen. It may be a challenge you didn’t choose, but which you believe life, circumstances, chance or destiny forced on you. If so, you need to choose to take it on, to make it your choice, the battle (even the war) which you have decided you are going to fight to win.

Confidence grows as you acknowledge and take account of your Competence and Commitment and allow those truths about yourself to feed and nourish your self-belief. Self-belief is the essence of Confidence. It develops as you start talking truth to yourself.

Talking truth has both an exponential capacity and a magic quality. Exponential in that it is characterised by an extremely rapid increase or growth; magic in that it works with an inexplicable, extraordinary power or influence. Basically, the more you tell the truth to yourself, the more self-belief mushrooms. Self-belief can’t get enough of the truth; the more you feed it, the more it craves it!

In building self-belief, you may well find ‘Fighting Talk - Winning Words, Talking Truths’ at http://peterjfarley.blogspot.co.uk/ helpful in building confidence.

So, in a nutshellIf you have proven your competence in the past to be tenacious, a fighter and not a quitter, an achiever, and shown your commitment to accomplishing the challenge you are now facing, then you can have the confidence to believe you can succeed and win the victory! 


Go for it!

Tuesday, 28 November 2017

FIGHTING TALK — WINNING WORDS, TELLING TRUTHS - 3


I could never know what you’re going through but I believe you can get through today.
Keep telling yourself these Winning Words and the Truth will be Telling.
Remember, it’s  not just the truth you tell yourself but how you say it and how many times you say it.
Take in the truth as you would take medicine — three times a day and whenever you need it.

Believe me and tell yourself and you’ll find you believe it for yourself — YOU CAN AND WILL GET THROUGH TODAY!

Monday, 27 November 2017

FIGHTING TALK — WINNING WORDS, TELLING TRUTHS 2



I could never know what you’re going through but I believe you can get through today.
Keep telling yourself these Winning Words and the Truth will be Telling.
Remember, it’s  not just the truth you tell yourself but how you say it and how many times you say it.

Take in the truth as you would take medicine — three times a day and whenever you need it.
Believe me and tell yourself and you’ll find you believe it for yourself — YOU CAN AND WILL GET THROUGH TODAY!


FIGHTING TALK — WINNING WORDS, TELLING TRUTHS - 1



I could never know what you’re going through but I believe you can get through today.
Keep telling yourself these Winning Words and the Truth will be Telling.
Remember, it’s  not just the truth you tell yourself but how you say it and how many times you say it.


Take in the truth as you would take medicine — three times a day and whenever you need it.
Believe me and tell yourself and you’ll find you believe it for yourself — YOU CAN AND WILL GET THROUGH TODAY!




Friday, 17 November 2017

Injustice! Standing or falling — and failing?

United, we should stand for Justice, Fairness and Equality — otherwise, we fall — and fail!

In Act 3 Scene 1 of Shakespear’s Henry IV Part 2, there is a discourse between King Henry and the Earls of Surrey and Warwick. The King states:  Then you perceive the body of our kingdom how foul it is, what rank diseases grow and with what danger near the heart of it.
The Earl of Warwick responds: It is but as a body yet distempered, which to his former strength may be restored with good advice and little medicine.

There is little doubt that, in many ways, in common with many other nations, the United Kingdom is as much uneased, as diseased. It is diseased in that it is blighted with a lack of tolerance and respect for those with differing views, and an increasing disregard, at all levels of society, for the needs of the poor and vulnerable.

It is uneased by the growing discontent and discomfort felt by many, at their lack of power to do something about the state of our nation and our communities. In the wake of abuses of power by those who claim to be in authority, the majority of people feel powerless.

Unless we find a way for the silenced majority to have their say, by default, we are sentenced to sullen servitude. In so doing though, the ground is being prepared for inevitable insurrection. There is a cancer of discontent in society. This is not simply a benign discomfort, rather it is a malignant disaffection. Neither is this a time for simply dealing with the symptoms but rather an imperative to truly tackle the causes.

From time to time, a few politicians may call for us to treat the causes, but time and again, powerful interests ensure such pleas are never carried through. Why is that? Could it be that these same powerful interests are the macrobes which bacterium-like are intentionally causing social dis-ease?

We need to be actively aware that there are those in the upper echelons of society, who will placate, fob off, and cynically overrule, suppress (and if necessary silence) any dissenters, who seek to expose their true motives. They will ensure that such dissenters are labelled as irresponsible, social disruptives, bent on causing anarchy.

The dictionary defines a rebel as a person who rises in opposition or armed resistance against an established government or leader, a person who resists authority, control, or convention. Those of us who feel disenfranchised and desire to see a more just and fair society need to be proud to acknowledge that we are rebels. We are rebels with a cause — a just cause.  

Being a rebel doesn’t automatically mean we have to rise in armed resistance, to me this would be abhorrent. However, those who feel like-minded should seek to find a way in which they can responsibly rebel — to say to those with power and those in power: Stop the abuse!

So often when someone seeks to show there is a problem within a group (whether large or small, national or local), a leader will respond: ‘What’s the answer?’. When the riposte is: ‘I don’t know!’, the illogical retort is: ‘Well, there can’t be a problem!’

This is where the rebel must vigorously press for an open discourse. Those who feel like-minded must express our determination to find a way to give a voice to the people. We must declare our resolve to discover a way in which all that are able to, can collectively confront the fragmentation of our shared rights. We must have the audacity to suggest that we can speak for the young, the undiscerning, the vulnerable, who cannot or will not speak for themselves.


I write this, not as an academic or philosopher, nor am I claiming to be erudite. Neither am I asserting that I have any more authority or expertise than the next man. No, I write as someone who is aware of my own failure to consistently live up to what I espouse. However, I am extremely distressed, tired of and fed up with the state of our nation, and the lack of leadership (particularly politically), to inspire us to work for (and responsibly fight for) a just and fair society.

Saturday, 28 October 2017

Nothing makes sense - really!



I’ve just watched these videos on Facebook, they were posted separately but have a common theme. The second is titled ‘omg I can’t believe how they did this’, neither can I, but it certainly didn’t happen on its own. It couldn’t have come from nothing, could it have? But then if DNA happened on its own, perhaps it did – it just came from nothing. Nothing makes perfect sense!

What do think? Doesn’t everything make perfect sense?